It’s weird.
What differentiated Facebook from any other social networking site before it, and has made it such a big part of our lives, is that it brought reality to the internet. Initially people couldn’t simply sign up with an email address, you had to be a real person with a college/high school account.
Anonymous and fakes were unheard of, the life you lived off the internet was the life you lived on the internet. Even initially, when the website was opened up to the entire world, you were the person you said you are, and you could meet people who said that they were.
But then people started to embellish who they were, as they have done on MySpace or Twitter or CrushSpot. Worst, they begin to imitate others as the website grew. The faces in this book belonged to others with no idea of what was happening.
But that’s normal.
I think that’s why people are so protective of Tumblr. The first rule of Tumblr, “To not speak about Tumblr,” is to protect one of the last havens of internet personas. It is said that the people on Facebook are people you know (unfortunately), but people on Tumblr are those you wish you knew.
I’ve had experiences with fakes here though… many…
I’ve been fortunate to allow people I’ve met here into my real life and friended them on Facebook, but is that really the point?
How many people have their Tumblrs and Facebooks connected?
How many folks here would get the mean side eye from friends and family if they read their blog?
I’m not condemning anyone who wants to keep Tumblr and their blog secret. We need outlets an escape from the torments of the real world… and Facebook.